Golden Triangle of Happiness … and December 2020 – End of Month Update

Image from letsreimagine.org

After just going through a Christmas period where, in these COVID-19 times, I was lucky enough to spend time with some family – I was struck with an unusual contentment. It is easy to get bogged down with the day to day challenges of life, but Slack Investor occasionally gets self reflective and has long realised that he is a happy bloke. This state is much sought after and it often doesn’t naturally happen. A recent publication that has lodged in my tiny brain is the Australian Wellbeing Index. This research has been conducted twice a year over the last 15 years and involves more than 60,000 participants.

Personal wellbeing appears to increase with age, with some of the happiest Australians aged 65 and over.

Australian Wellbeing Index – 2019 Joint Research between Deakin University and Australian Unity.

The latest instalment of one of Australia’s largest wellbeing surveys has found that, besides genetics, there are three simple indicators of a happy life. Financial security, a sense of purpose in life, and good personal relationships make up the “golden triangle” of happiness. The full report can be found here.

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Source: thenewdaily.com.au

Financial Security

This is really what this blog posts mostly about – so I wont expand too much here. But if you feel that you are in control of your money then you can avoid many of the financial stresses. While having money does not make you happy, if you don’t have any, it can make you miserable. Not surprisingly, the survey found that the feeling of wellbeing gradually rises for household earnings up to about $100,000 a year. Surprisingly, earnings over this point found the relationship between happiness and wealth drops off dramatically.

Relationships

… the people who fared the best were the people who leaned into relationships, with family, with friends, with community,”

Dr. Robert Waldinger , Harvard University

We are humans and (mostly) social creatures – a sharing of your life and having someone who cares about you makes you feel better about yourself. A Harvard study that has been going for 80 years found that people who are more socially connected to family, friends, or community are “happier, they’re physically healthier and they live longer than people who are less well connected,” 

“It doesn’t need to be a sexual relationship, but it needs to be an emotionally intimate relationship where you can share troubles and sorrows and joys,”

Prof Bob Cummins, Deakin University

Sense of Purpose

Something to do … your get up in the morning and you have a project, part time job, volunteering, exercise, a hobby – but it is something! People are happier when they are active.

But, beyond the “golden triangle” of happiness, there are other approaches – Rather than take on each corner of the triangle, just try to just make little micro changes to your life – Perhaps a little more exercise, or contact an old friend …

An older friend once pointed out to me that we were lucky enough to have choices with our lives. He stressed our limited life span and suggested I make a list of the things that I really liked doing – and then try to engineer my life to maximise these good things and then minimise the other, less enjoyable. but necessary stuff. When you collect all the moments that make you happy … you might just … be happy!

Spend more time with people you like, get outdoors a bit more, listen to some music, have some new experiences, help other people …

“Happiness thinker” Professor Paul Dolan

December 2020 – End of Month Update

Slack Investor remains IN for Australian index shares, the US Index S&P 500 and the FTSE 100. All Slack Investor followed overseas markets this month had rises (ASX 200 +1.1%; FTSE 100 +3.1%; S&P 500 +3.7%).

I still remain nervous about the US market with its high valuations. The closing value of the S&P 500 (3756) is now 18% above the current stop loss at 3200. If the margin gets to 20% (UPR LIMIT 3840)), then I will find a place to move my stop loss upward. In these uncertain times, I will monitor my index funds weekly and if, at the end of the week my Index funds are below the stop loss, then I will put a post on the blog and sell at the next opportunity. All Stop Losses are Live.

S&P 500 Monthly chart December31 2020- From incrediblecharts.com

All Index pages and charts  have been updated to reflect the monthly changes – (ASX IndexUK IndexUS Index). The quarterly updates to the Slack Portfolio have also been completed.

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